Robert By David Wygant

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Soulmates…..Myth or Reality?

Todays blog will be part of a live coaching from London with a client. Hopefully these exchanges with my client will give you an idea of my coaching style. Consider it a sneak peek into what I do when I am coaching clients and leading bootcamps!
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Scarcity Mentality By David Wygant

I recently sat down with one of my clients. Here is the actual transcript. Enjoy and have a great Friday!!

Markus: One thing we were talking about yesterday is the scarcity mentality: thinking all the time that you’re missing something. You walk in the city and see a square full of people, and many times you think, oh, I have to be there too. Because everyone is doing it, and if I’m not there, I will definitely miss something.

But on the other hand, maybe it’s just better to go home then, because you had a good evening anyway. You can go to bed early, and get up on Sunday and have another great day.

But this scarcity thing plays into many different parts of life. For example, you have a girlfriend, and you constantly try to call her and please her, and you run after her, because you think that if you don’t do it, she will be offended. You will miss something, she will miss something, and you will not have the opportunity to be with her again.

Or the opportunity to find another person – it’s always this thinking that I will miss something. If I don’t do that now, I will never have the opportunity to do that again. So the question is, how do we overcome that?
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Flirt On A Train by David Wygant

I have been all over Europe and it has some amazing underground train systems. This is unlike America, where we just sit in our cars all day long and curse at people in traffic – except of course for New York City, Boston, Chicago, San Francisco, and some other cities – I think Philly might have a train.

But most of the US doesn’t have an underground system. When I was in Europe I was sitting with my client Pete, and Pete wanted to know: how do you meet people on the train?

Well, I said, it’s really easy. You have to put yourself in everybody else’s shoes and their emotions.
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Social Proof By David Wygant

Women want what other women have. It’s like the ultimate version of social proof – you could be sitting in a restaurant and you know the waitress. So you go in alone to the restaurant that you eat at every Saturday and there is the waitress that you know.

So what do you do? You remember things about her. Not only do you have to be memorable, but you also have to remember things about people so you are able to bond with them again.
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Chasing the Night By David Wygant

Happy Friday!!

Are you going to chase the night tonight or attract the night?

This blog is part of a live coaching from a recent trip to London with a client. Hopefully these exchanges with my client will give you an idea of my coaching style. Consider it a sneak peek into what I do when I am coaching clients and leading bootcamps!
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Fashion Ideals By David Wygant

What’s the ideal fashion?

There is a terminology that the pickup community (pua community) uses. As you guys know, most of the time I don’t really use the nicknames or terminologies that are being used in the pickup community because I like to just call it what it is.

But there is something the pickup community calls ‘peacocking’ – no, it’s not a guy walking around with peacock feathers trying to hook up with women – it’s about men developing a look so they can actually go out and attract women.
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Men Love Big Toys by david wygant

You know what’s funny as I walked around Amsterdam tonight on all the narrow streets it made me realize how funny we are with our large lifestyle.

In Europe everything is small including the windows in the red light district!

Which by the way is quite amusing. They just peer out at you and beckon you to come towards them with their fingers and half naked bodies.
It was quite amusing watching the men wander towards the doors and mustering up the courage to go in.

It seems that even when they pay for it, they have approach anxiety!!

Now back to why men love big toys.
So, the other day I was looking to buy a television set – well actually it was about nine months ago, but to me everything qualifies as the other day because the past is the past, the present is what I’m living in, and the future is still undecided – so everything seems like yesterday to me.

I remember yesterday when I was 11 – okay, that does seem like a long time ago, but that’s about the only thing!
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Sexual Mentorship by David Wygant

If you’re a guy in your twenties that hasn’t had much sexual experience yet, and you really want to learn how to please a woman, I suggest that you look for a mentor.

I’m not talking about myself, and I’m not talking about any other dating or sex guru. I’m not talking about anybody with a nickname that can supposedly teach you how to be the world’s best lover.
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